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Kamis, 07 Februari 2013

#Parenting

Nobody's perfect, even our parents, our brother/sister, our teacher, and of course ourself.
Every parent had been being a child. How about their childhood? Have they felt that their parent was so annoying?
Personally, I have.

I have been being a child. I love my parent very much. I'm proud of them so much. But, it doesn't mean that they're never let me down.

Because of it, learning from my life, i won't do anything that i never like from my parent, to my child next day.
Why? Because i know the feeling is.
This is a story about my daily's life.
There's a girl who was studying math in her private class with private teacher.
On the other side, her mommy watched for her, keep attend for her daughter at all.
When her teacher told her to finish some number of math, she couldn't fix it, even a number.
Teacher looked upset and talked to her mommy.
Then, what's happened?
In public rooms, her mommy getting mad.
Everyone could see it. Her mother spoke loudly so i could hear it clearly. So do the others.

I looked at the girl. She was so depressed. Of course she was.
Then i think, does she realizes that she was a bad mother?
Well, i never be a mother, but i can say like that because i'm a child.
If my mother do that, i'll say my mom is the bad mother around the world.

What did she feel? Shamed? The girl can't finish the exercise, is the situation will be better if she getting mad of her daughter in public rooms?
I don't think so.

Her daughter also has a feeling, her daughter don't want it. Her daughter want to make her parent proud of her. But, when everything is felt so hard for her, who's wrong? Who's must response? Who's must support?

Holding her hand, talking heart to heart, smiling, hugging, and the other affections.

If you can't be a best parent, at least you don't need to be a worst parent.

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